Toddler and a newborn... any tops?

Hello everything only after some pointers.

I am pregnant with my second child 14.3 weeks presently. My son will be 20 months old, if was born s/he. He/it now is 14 months, and itself too bemühen, to help understand for him/it, is, gonna is tough with him/it, been so young.

Also, although he/it is cured of the bottle, and that was a fight as he/it turned very solidly into it. If he/it sees, \'s another baby with one bottle begins gro he/itße time. Ohßer is it he/it a more exactly laied toddler for his/its old back and very brightly.

EinerEiner of my friends has old baby a 2 month, and he/it loves him/it, kisses him/it... gives him/it flowers, if we in the park and trys is to be offered his/its meal to him/it and so on.

my 3 questions are so

1, what is, the best way, to prepare him/it for a sibling.

2, everyone has all tops as he/it coped with both of them, as soon as was born s/he,

3, what makes i over the bottle question. i weiß, that it is normal for toddlers in order to regress if a sibling was born,..... i detains company or one lets him/it had i with water in it so that he/it recognizes, is not the effort worth.

Thank for your support types

Note: before everyone has i over not nursing one going, it cannot do because of a breast reduction before the credit of children, for medical reasons not vanity, therefore the single possibility is bottlefeeding

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exuse I you silly teens i is an adult and wanted a sibling for my son. i can cope and can take, worry of my children only punishes. moron was not critacisem i after some helpful tops of some grown good times from you

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Hello there was worried about these questions I, as I had my second offspring. There are 24 months between them! You/they still have a while no to let used him/it for it this Flaschensache, I think Sie\'ll is fine until at the moment, if the baby arrives. können you him/it rewards, if he/it doesn\'t succeed in beginning, if he/it sees another bottle? 6 months are a long long time in sense on the developments, that he/it will do. Abidance company, Don, \'t closes to one bottle theück, you did so well in order to remove him/it from it!

In order to prepare my boy for his/its brother, I read a story of a new baby to him/it, I talked a little one about it besides it, it left behind until the time nearer, as I think, too long, it is difficult for her/it/them to wait. I showed him/it, where sleeps w the new babyürde and a little one about what the new baby could do, speaks! But otherwise, we didn\'t does much, we spoke a bißchen in my stomach over the baby being.

As I was in hospital, that has our second child, my husband exported my son in order to buy a gift for the new baby. Also, we guaranteed, thereß the first time that he/it saw, his/its brother go this a gift for him/it of his/its brother, a toy truck and a sweety, there exactly down, very healthy!!

You/they know, he/it is so young that he/it will have little memory of a time within days as his/its sibling was not around. My sister has children with a 20 month of Altersvolljährig and there was not any jealousy at all, I believe, because the older child still was quite young. EsEs is quite für you, discouraging as a parent, I remember over having cried loads in the run with worry upward like sie\'d gets on.

Distributing BeideBeide with them, as soon as the new baby was born,..... type from depends from the new baby! I nursed myself too bemühen, thinks Ältest things previously to give as much attention to it. I read to him/it before während feeding and stuff. If the baby goes, could you to sleep your Eldest gives time and guarantees, that you spend duration alone with them always every day. As my jüngstes started to crawl, that was as there were some toy questions, but other than, that they understood fine. My A biscuit placed eldest into the tiny mouth, as he/it was tiny, but fortunately I immediately saw it. bemühen you itself, not to leave her/it/them together alone, becomes your son a fascination with the baby haben\'s-Augen with 20 months, nose and mouth, so that you must participate careful. Könnten you a playpen for the baby procures?! Sie\'ll comes in totally quite fast in it, and the second is much easier than first time round, because they only now must insert your life! Bemühen you itself, to any routines, that have you already with your eldest, to be. If you are in the middle of something of your son, and the baby, Don, begins \'t rushes exactly away away, as maybe he/it resents that and thinks this shouting, and the wine, a way is to be gotten attention, you continue with him/it, which you do some minutes long and ask him/it also, why he/it believes that the baby could cry!
He/it sounds like a cutie and I betted, that he/it and his/its sibling will be best friends. Mine are 3, and a H,älfte and one and a half and she/it adore each other.
Luck.

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from Crazyy Bubbless, 1 is the best way, definately brings to him/it more about other small babies, so that, if his/its small brother/sister gets here, he/it the application of it will be,
2)They will bring the application exactly to each other,
3)You must be solid with him/it or he/it never must understand it and will never leave it in silence

congrats!! doesn\'t concern you those annoyed teenagers.

the positive advice is from Angela W that you were given, big. I walso adds ürde adds that if gifts arrive, you allow big brother to open her/it/them and to also guarantee, he/it anxiously also some gifts for him/it.

We procured a digital camera for my son, camera jokes vtech. he/it believed, thereß he/it very important taking photos of baby was. Nathowever, most of them were white waste ürlich he/it didn\'t this!

Only be careful not to expect him/it, about besides it too much, to help, you commend him/it if he/it does.

Enjoy your duration with your children.

some of the answers, that you got, were stupidly from Aussie Mum Gee, gosh that I don\'t conserve beleive how dumb some children are nowadays, hopefully ours won\'t be like this hehe.
Going back anyway to your question. My children are 20 months, that through the whole Spaß and the games apart and presently go. My daughter turned only 3, and my son is 16 months. I didn\'t really prepares coz my daughter, I believe really not, thereß she/it understands. You/they, that are used, about me the stomach too küssen and, to say, there was a baby over it besides thats indoors. As my son was born, she/it therefore became thereover enthusiastic, that there were not any negations. She/it wanted to hold him/it and wanted to caress his/its head and his/its matters like it. SieSie actually used for Schlaf-in until ungefähr 10am every day, but as soon as we bought him/it from the hospital at home, that got up she/it much earlier, to see him/it only. Her/its/their son will probably hug the baby the whole time, wants, and he/it gewann\'t ließ the baby with all toys plays, and everything will belong to your son, and nothing will belong hehehe to your new born. Umm over the bottle, I would let your son had 1 flasks per day. My daughter was distant around the bottle, but as soon as my son had one bottle, würde she/it and he/it whirl up her/it/them bleich\'ts grizzle one to, so that I give her/it/them per day 1 flasks, and I think this is, more finely becuase that it is not like her/it will become stupid or only slows, because she/it has one bottle once, and a while and I only guarantee, that she/it used it one cup only at home in closed doors, if we are from her, and she/it is fine with it. IchIch can tell you, thereß, to have both children, at the beginning easy is, but as soon as the baby feet this on there on is, s, if it suddenly goes madly and becomes difficult. Thats if the Spielkämpfe-Anfang, matters are broken, transferred, and your son will teach the baby naughty matters and vice-versa and thats, if you start to extract your hair, but you still want to press her/it/them and want to kiss her/it/them and how much you love she/it tells them.

through my sons, girl names have... one... we again in asimilar-Situation. un 17 weeks preggersandmy-Sohn is 17 months. this baby becomes ungefähr 6 weeks before my son secondbirthday was born. it actually plans i to do the same matters to let acclimatized him/it as we did with our dog. , i weiß, that maybe it sounds harsh, but studies show children by 2, you have the same intelligence as an adult dog, so approximately three months before the new baby gets here, will carry i about a doll and will pretend is a baby. and place thim in his/its großen Jungenbett bed and places you into his/its manger the doll. therefore he/it is accustomed to it, the doll into his/its forrmer copies to see. will then start i to set up matters, so that he/it to It can be used alterations, like seeing a box and a game. also the doll will carry i, because down my son to on the ruff-Unterbringung slowly learns muß, if un a fragile infant\'s carrying. as far as the Flaschengehen provides therefore wouldnt for itself i. Children get like it... from sight from mind. when you see be this for him/it similar "oh i remeber that my son was since approximately 13 months from his/its pacifer and now smooths, if he/it sees one, he/it wants it. tells to him/it i only no and bemüht, to remove him/it from his/its temptation ASAP. plus softness welländiges praise. how "un with it proudof you!" You goes o, you are a big big brother. it also plans i as he/it got him/it a small one, "Gift", if the baby gets here. plus my son has rubbed and küssend from me the stomach, because he/it learned over babies. babies show to him/it i in Läden and in the television and he/it says "baby" and points to my stomach. i thinks ihn\'ll to beat even more used gets, if he/it my stomach and my Gefühlen the baby, who steps, touches. my husband and i agrees, thereß we only our routine one brought down, packed and is gotten a whole new, must. but if then we us the first year can survive, \'ll is okay. congratscongrats and welcomes to the todler and Säuglingsklub!!!!

durchdurch aandj oh.. i was in the same boat as you, i has a boy and a girl apart 18 months

you let 1, for my son, that we talked with him/it about the baby, feel him/it as she/it drew in my stomach.

2)oh it will be difficult, but she/it was in the habit i of feeding, and while she/it was my son napping, and watch films would become i or play what he/it wanted to do, or he/it likes also cartoons. während she/it his/its very hard also otherwise cleaned i slept.

3)stay companies, that he/it will begin to see, only, that bottles are for babies, and the cups are for big boys.

it hoped i that something helped, but i can tell completely on all to you.

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my own experiences in two toddlers

through Charlie, whom i has only two weeks before baby, you number, in two is here. it becomes between both M 20 monthsgive little ad. yes it will be difficult, and i also is concerned! after didn\'t need any bottle 12 months of toddlers. now break the habit so. he/it muß of a sippy-Tasse drink. my daughter now drinks from a normal cup with no problems. NO BABY Füllt for him/it from. he/it becomes there soonover gotten and is O.K. that my daughter also was from 4 weeks of full age fed bottle. ever länger you him/it the worse, that it will be, leaves. in sense on preparing of him/it für the baby\'s birth guesses i, that all children are different, but my daughter really has no idea what happens!!! we talks about the baby, and she/it kisses my stomach, but that really is everything, which she/it understands.

through aqua? If says you gunna aren\'t, thereß something nice nothing idiots says!
She/it didn\'t say that she/it cannot get done with her/its/their children, who ask for experienced parents only about it to offer any advice!
Bring him/it to speaking with your stomach and caress it, as soon as it starts, you explain him/it a little bigger to become that it is his/its again brother/sister and somebody, that playing with it will be he/it capable, as soon as becomes s/he a little older.
As he/it will be scarce some months with two, if your new baby was born, you could help him/it to feeling, involved through the asking of him/it to help you, as changing the baby, that ask him/it, for example, to hand to you nappys and wetwipes, this will help him/it to feel leave more little out, and he/it will know, that mummy still nurses him/it, he/it will feel also like a big young and upward is less likely to play, if you are incapable to give him/it, every attention like it times to change and to live.
I, that you have the Flaschenteilstelle on it, also believe your sons gonna-Gefühl from something omitted, as you will have maybe less time for him/it, that it would make for him/it, a little better so to only have the bottle with water, he/it will be fed finally upward and the cup or the beaker are wanted a deep kid! SonstSonst have you the bringing of him/it to the Geschäft and, to choose bringing from him/it, tries one the cup or cup of big boys?

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omg i never had a child previously
but i-Gefühl sad about you
no advice?
even tho imay before also is: (