During nursing your newborn, how flat you to get enough sleep, while you still nurse your older child?

I think my two and one half year old, will remain with my mother according to law to a few days, but long not. My mother sees my sister an\'s-Kinder and I really leave us on no help of her. My husband doesn\'t gets the paternity permission, so that I don\'t rely on him/it either. ICH\'m sure becomes she/it for itself bemühen, but if they are not capable to help, how can I be sure, enough sleep plus finding parent my 2yo plus reception preoccupation of me, to bring a way? I didn\'t bf my son, partially because I had an UTI, as he/it was born without recognizing it and was not fähig that awakens in order to remain in order to feed him/it. I became really verwüstet that I wasn\'t capable to, but I am nevertheless intimidated with the idea, available for it, itself 30 minutes long every ninety minutes, to nourish, to be. Any tops or a dodge or information, that I aufsetze,weiß \'t approximately?

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With my son, it always was my husband, who got up at night with him/it. It it a much easier Schläfer as I. My son normally takes Schläfchen besides the days, that I could really use one.
I had planned, as it had kept a playpen bassinet beside my bed, equipped with diapers, plus the permission a nice bottle of water from for me. I am worried more than night about the day, I höre, that you should sleep, if your newborn sleeps, which obviously is no possibility, if of Sie\'wieder the prestige during the day of a 2yo. Hopefully muß I it only 9am-12pm(husband machen\'s lunch fractions, and then 1pm-3pm, the nap of son.
I only worried that, because I no help, I placed myself with a schedule, that is too hard, on could get. Thanks to für the answers. :)

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I wish, there were some tops or tricks! Lol.
I have old a 3.5 yr and a 4 mth old, that I nurse all 2 hrs-Tage, and night and I believe that it is a case to be gotten through it. ICH\'m sorrowfully cannot say anything more productive I.
Says that, I nurse my baby girl in the bed with me. You/they ernährt itself, and then, she/it goes to sleep into her/its/their child\'s bed back.

Says you were not supposed to have unified my mommy, "if you cannot take any joke, for itself!!! " Lol.

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through herdoula, I nursed my baby in the bed. I weiß das\'s, that doesn\'t go, to be a popular answer here. But I got silence and dort\'s no surer place in night für my baby as in my arms.

through laura468, you are not important, if it is a boob or fills, you only do it, you are not gotten the whole sleep, that you want any time for proper,

you already heard it from Christina P, but I also started to work as a nurse in the bed. My second daughter würde with night at a time only one hour sleeps. I würde half a hour or feeding therefore from her, then 20 further minutes, that takes the trouble to put back her/it/them to sleep, then even more time for me, to go back to sleep, spends. Colic had plus her/it and yelled every night of 9 midnights. It was Hölle! Then, I gave up and started, she/it in my bed too füttern. You/they würde wakes up, fuss by 30 seconds, I would help her/it/them to snap on it, and in over another minute was I to sleep back. I went from it, to 4 minutes, over 4 hours of sleep, to lose a night. Really! And yes, maybe it is gefährlicher been, but babies die of SIDS, that also sleeps alone. She/it was well it, and I was much better! With night I practiced to place her/it/them into her/its/their own bed for the first part of the night. By four months, she/it slept in her/its/their own bed in her/its/their own room through the night.

I have a 3 month old and a 4 year through amethyst old. I still nurse and I, dont gets every sleep, but takes your 2-j hopefullyähriges nevertheless naps.... this way, that you can take the trouble to get them both on the same time below to rest.
I plan, as it disaccustomed the boy old by 4-5 months, only because attention lets robbed i-Gefühl like my 4 years old, and my husband could finally help to feed him/it, and can rest i.
This is, you only divide from having 2 children, lived you last eternally, but it is challanging...

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beside dollies is your the best betted to, to work like as nurses of putting down on your side, is, learns. With night, my daughter slept beside me and if she/it awakened the needing of a feed I, the straight one was whipped from a boob, and asleep to theück fell!!! so much more easily than rising and doing of one bottle..... will retain you time, money, of Breastfeeding and more sleep time than bottlefeeding will consider, I guarantee it. The worst things are the first few weeks, therefore make you for many meals and Don, fear in order to ask for the house about help has leicht\'t.

I would mention gladly that co sleeping doesn\'t increase the risk of sids. Indeed rückt your baby, to let sleep, nearer, you decrease the risk of sids because the parents, who breathe in pattern, help to regulate the babies. The baby schläft also lighter and retinues upward more easily if in pain. The parents are near, too h also through itören, if the baby suffocates or has other problems.

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from Xdatinel... if you, that you must nurse in the bed, feel, therefore you please put on to do to be supported by pillows & to put baby on a nursing pillow. Don\'t make it down for lying, that therefore is very gefährlich, you can fall asleep & something can happen.

I distinguish this of expirence, my second son died old from sids with 6 weeks in the bed with me & my husband. It simply is too gefährlich & now, fact must live i tha with him/it, I fell asleep this night...

through nanook I co-slept also, so that I could nurse more easily with night, and it was a lifesaver for me. I had a newborn old and a 18 month, I needed the whole sleep, that I could get! I took also Schläfchen if they slept both. You/they müssen it only day by day takes. Put aside, unreal expectations (spotless house) folded Wgrayling (lol) completely and does only that, what you can. Report which always helps you können regarding housework and cooking from your spouse, and family, gets if they present themselves. I found, thereß, after matters had gotten alot the first few week more easily as far as a daily schedule. You/they können it does! Glück, mom.

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